Gamification in negotiations: caring less leads to perceived winning and losing.

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😎 “Negotiations are won by whoever cares less.” (Naval Ravikant)

In a broader sense, my take on this is: once an animal like the human being reaches a status of relative dominance over their closest universe (we no longer need to ‘compete’ with our peers for survival from predators or starvation) human civilization has replaced their competitive instinct for survival with other sorts of competitions where we are told there are winners and losers. The concept of winners and losers can be ideally exemplified in games, which civilization have developed to be more sophisticated as it evolves. In the initial sentence lies what, in my view, is a tendency to ‘gamify’ most activities in life, including those related to work, education, and even personal relationships. We ‘gamify’ things by attributing the concept of winning and losing as in competition even when there is rationally no such concept: who wins a negotiation? What does it mean to win or lose a negotiation if a negotiation is an agreement between two parties? If anyone, the one who figuratively ‘wins’ the negotiation is the one who ‘cares’ less, the one who doesn’t gamify but rationalize the negotiation and understands the concept of winning/losing is less relevant.

Summarize this in a short sentence that synthesizes the previous words, without altering the message and keeping all the keywords and language style intact. For example: the term ‘gamification’ is part of the essence of the message.
🤖 Human civilization’s evolution from survival competition to gamifying life’s aspects, including work, education, and personal relationships, reveals that in negotiations, often perceived through a win-lose lens, true advantage lies with those who detach, rationalize, and recognize the irrelevance of gamified victory.
😎 No, you clearly didn’t care to process the message. The text is trying to explain how it sees the quote as a sort of ‘gamification’ tendency. Your text doesn’t explain anything, it’s nonsense
🤖 In modern society, where survival competition has been replaced by sophisticated forms of gamification in work, education, and personal relationships, the true ‘victor’ in negotiations is seen not as one who ‘wins’ in the traditional sense, but as one who transcends this gamified concept by caring less, thereby understanding and rationalizing the process beyond the binary of winning or losing.

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